Mile Marker by Bobbi McGee


 Welcome friends; this page is dedicated to the men & women who keep this country rolling and those who love and support them. “Mile Marker,” is a blog where I interview those behind the scenes, the ones who know best what being a trucker’s spouse is all about. It’s where I discuss my life and the impact trucking has had on my family. If you’re going to survive the ride you better have a Hard Shell! #TruckersWife #milemarker #hardshelllife Find me on Facebook: Hard Shell Life (Bobbi McGee) 

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